Posted: 04 October 2008 at 4:12pm | IP Logged

I really need some advice right now.  I recently moved to SC (got PCS'd here) with my boyfriend.  He has been legally separated from his wife for 2 years, she moved to FL, we've been together 1.5 years in AK.  Originally he told me the reason they hadn't divorced was for support purposes, she had their two kids with her.  Now we are moved closer, the kids are living with us.  She apparently didn't know about our relationship until we moved to SC, two months ago, because she would use me as a weapon to turn the kids against him.  Now that she knows about us it's getting ugly fast.  She is starting to harrass me, telling me lies about him cheating on me, with her, with other people, calling and arguing with him non-stop.  The reason they split is because he cheated on her, she left him.  Now she is also living with someone else in FL.  He's finally fed up and is filing for divorce, but I'm not sure how it's all going to effect him in the military.  He is active duty in the AF.  Is there anything she can do to help him?