Posted: 03 February 2009 at 10:19am | IP Logged

I live in the state of Florida and I dont even know where to start. I need to file divorce but,  my husband is out of country. I tried several attempts to locate him without sucess. I have three kids no assest. and he has been missing for 6 months.

What can i do? I can't afford a lawyer right now and i want to do it by myself.

Posted: 06 March 2009 at 10:31pm | IP Logged

Don't be in such a hurry. Take your time and live one day at a time.  My biggest mistake was thinking a divorce would solve all my problems.  Getting a divorce was a major mistake because my children were hurt and my husband was not as horrible as I thought.  We were married over 20yrs and I went through a phase of thinking he was horrible because he wasnt like he was when we first got married.  We got older and he was mean at times from a stressful day and having teens.  Stop and live one day at a time. please.  I wish I did.